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Three Reasons to Read Memoir

WHEN PEOPLE ASK why I love memoir, I frequently remind them that were it not for my favorite genre, we would not have the narratives of the disenfranchised. It’s a good thing to keep in mind when the relatives gather and someone disparages the genre and you, in turn, for writing it. Someone always will disparage it, you know, calling it self-indulgent, ego-centric, or my favorite put-down, navel-gazing, and when they do, it’s our turn to shine. To help you do so, here are three reasons to read memoir. Let me know if you can add to the list.

Recently reading about what sounds like a fabulous new book, I was reminded of the fact that without memoir we would have little of the slave narrative. The book, Gateway to Freedom: The Hidden History of the Underground Railroad, is by Eric Foner. The stories of the quest for freedom may be the single greatest examples we have in literature of what keeps the human pilot light lit. And those are the stories I love most.

The NPR piece about Foner and his book got me thinking about lives I know little about and where, and if, they are being represented online. And just like that, I was reading Abernathy Magazine, a brilliant as well as beautiful new (to me, at least) addition to the world of fine online reading. Named for the minister Ralph Abernathy, a leader of America’s Civil Rights Movement, the online magazine gave me a look at depression in the black community, taught me (rather, made me look up) the definition of “itis,” and provoked me on the topic of self-esteem to see it as a lifelong journey and not something that you can merely slap on and try. Thank you, Abernathy. You’ve got yourself a new reader.

Advertised as a publication for diverse voices, Solstice is another new place for me to go to travel far without leaving home. Now celebrating five years in publication, Solstice will mark the anniversary with a print anthology due out in April. And yes, to answer your first question, they take submissions for memoir.

Three things to read, each for its own reason. What’s on your screen that others need to know about?

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  1. kerry lusignan says

    February 26, 2015 at 8:11 am

    I’m wondering what the other two reasons are? I am only seeing the first unless I am missing something.

    I would say a great reason for reading memoirs is that they keep us company and make us realize we are not alone in our experiences in life. As many, if not all of them speak to universal themes.

    • marion says

      March 2, 2015 at 10:11 am

      Hi, Kerry.
      So sorry if I was unclear.
      I added a phrase to make my point.
      Thanks for coming by.
      Hope to see you here again.
      Best,
      Marion

  2. Willie Jackson says

    February 26, 2015 at 1:55 pm

    Hi Marion-

    Thanks for the kind words about Abernathy Magazine. Seeing your tweet (and post) was a pleasant surprise this afternoon.

    Cheers,

    W

    • marion says

      March 2, 2015 at 10:10 am

      Hi Willie.
      How lovely to meet you here.
      Abernathy is a fine accomplishment.
      I wish you all the best with it, and look forward to reading more.
      Best,
      Marion

  3. Sherrey Meyer says

    February 26, 2015 at 2:44 pm

    Marion, thanks for these three tips. I enjoy reading memoir and not just because it is my genre of choice for my current project. The more informed we are not only about our own past but the history of others in our community, country and world the more gracious we become in engaging with others. I missed the NPR article on on Foner but will read soon and have subscribed to both Abernathy and Solstice. Both magazines look intriguing. A great post filled with possibilities.

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