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5 Tools I Can’t Write Without

There are five essential tools I have on my desk every day when I write — five tools that I cannot write without. These are five tools every writer needs. They have not changed in many years and I suspect they never will. Why? Because they work. They get used every single day. All of them. And I look forward to seeing them every day when I get to my desk.

How about you? The holidays are over and well, maybe there are a few things on the list of gifts you wish you’d received. These always seem to be those that truly define you but that everyone else sees as wildly — and way too — practical right? Well, maybe you should get them for yourself. What would most help you to write memoir in the new year? I think I know. And I think if you think of these as retail therapy for your professional life, you’ll see your way clear to get them for yourself.

 5 Tools That I Cannot Write Without

Roget’s Thesaurus. Do not even try to discuss with me using the one on your computer. No. Nope. Not a chance. Here’s why: You are not merely searching for a substitute word when you consult the Thesaurus. Not if you want to write well. The computer does not understand this. Instead, when we go to that small but astonishing book, we are trying to understand the beam of the word, the depth of the word, the range of the right word we seek, and not just find another word for something. We want the right words, and reading in the Thesaurus is something I do every day, sometimes for hours. The “sometimes for hours” part comes late in writing a book when I do an edit that swaps nearly every single verb and adjective for the precisely correct one, at which point I am actually in there for days.

By the way, if you love Roget like I love Roget, you’ll want to read this book about Roget and the making of the Thesaurus, but it was while reading up on that one that I discovered that two clever women had written an award-winning kids’ book on Roget and his little book. Cool dogs, as we say in my house.

Bartlett’s Quotations. No, I do not begin my chapters with quotations. But many people do. And it’s fine. I use Bartlett’s to read what people far smarter than I think about what my book is about.

Huh? I know. Here’s how this goes. Once I know what my essay or radio piece, op-ed or book is about — mercy, justice, the precious process of learning the stages of grief, — I look up the word or key words related to my topic. This adds to the palette of my thinking, heightening and adding to what I already thought I knew about, say, justice, by reading a succinct quote by Homer or Milton or Angelou on my topic. It breaks open my brain a bit. It’s a great place to start thinking more broadly, widely, deeply and finely on what you want to write about.

A large desk calendar. This is essential for me. I use this one and consult it many times a day. Between this and my grid, I keep time on every single thing I do.

A clipboard. This is a classic piece of hardware for me and I’ve been using the same particle-board clipboard for years. And I am amused to see they are still for sale everywhere. Apparently, I am not alone in my adoration of the clipboard. I clip a legal pad to it daily, on which I write the punch list of things to do and stand it up behind my computer, right there under my book argument. I cannot work without it.

The Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson. This last one is deeply personal. You will choose something else, perhaps, though I can tell you that Emily won’t do your bit of harm. But maybe, instead, you’d like the poems of William Butler Yeats or Chase Twichell. Perhaps you are more of an aphorism person and like to start your day with a snappy saying. But have something close by that feels like yours and into which you can dip when you need a push, as well as a reminder, that writing is putting one word after another, and that other people knew this, did it, and lived to tell the tale.

This is not to say that my office does not more resemble the old Curiosity Shop than a sleek mid-century modern desk and chair set. I have previously written about the things that I keep at hand, specifically those reference books needed to write well. My office is cluttered with those things I use every day, but these, above, are the top five, those writing buddies I can reach without so much as swiveling my office chair.

What’s on your desk? Let’s help each other through the writing year by sharing what we need to write well.

 

 

 

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  1. Diane Cameron says

    January 4, 2017 at 7:53 am

    Oh–I LOVE this post, and I LOVE your blog. I too have a clipboard and a thesaurus: (kind of a word dinosaur) at hand. Must find my preferred book of poems tho…maybe Rumi?

    Thank you for this post. Thank you for removing a moment of writer’s loneliness.

    • marion says

      January 4, 2017 at 8:54 am

      Hi there, Diane.
      I am so glad it helps. We are all in this together, aren’t we?
      Rumi works. Oh yeah. Great suggestion. Thank you.
      Write on, sister.

  2. Amy Halloran says

    January 4, 2017 at 8:15 am

    This is terrific! I am curious how people tackle the nuts and bolts of time and thinking to get words written. Thanks Marion, and thanks Diane for drawing my attention to this great post.

    • marion says

      January 4, 2017 at 8:58 am

      Thank you, Amy. So glad to see you here. And thanks to Diane for direction. So glad to gather you fine writers here on the blog. Please come back soon.

  3. Lynda C Demsher says

    January 4, 2017 at 2:13 pm

    In addition to my dog-eared Thesaurus, I have a couple of crossword puzzle dictionaries…they are so helpful with finding that perfect word.

    • marion says

      January 5, 2017 at 11:53 am

      Yes, of course.
      Nice reminder.
      Thank you, Lynda.

  4. Anne Skyvington says

    January 5, 2017 at 12:58 am

    Marion, you always have such useful ideas for me. I’d like to use this (idea) as a basis for my next blog post. I’ve just finished my memoir, “River Girl,” and your book was what inspired me to continue and finish it. Also your review of Jeannette Winterson’s book had a hand in this. Thanks
    .

    • marion says

      January 5, 2017 at 11:53 am

      Dear Anne,
      How exciting! You finished your book.
      I’m delighted to read this.
      Nicely done.
      Yes, please use this as a basis for a post, and let me know when you do.
      I’d love to read it.
      Best,
      Marion

      • Anne Skyvington says

        January 5, 2017 at 11:38 pm

        Thanks, Marion. Will do so.
        Regards
        Anne

  5. Rosemary Nichols says

    January 6, 2017 at 10:49 am

    Happy New Year, Marion. I don’t know how many lists I made of those writing lists in your writing classes. They really work. Sometimes I am hunting for a word (and it isn’t old timer’s disease).

    • marion says

      January 6, 2017 at 10:53 am

      Hello, Rosemary.
      I am so glad that you love lists like I love lists.
      List on, sister!

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