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There is No Such Thing as Writer’s Block


WRITER’S BLOCK? NONSENSE. There is no such thing as writer’s block. Nope. Despite the fact that writing books are chock full of time-wasting exercises with all manners and ways to get you to emerge from that supposed thing, I say nonsense to all of it. Don’t agree? Keep reading.

So sure am I that there is no such thing as writer’s block that I am willing to say that it isa phrase initially invented by someone who wanted to sell others cockamamie products disguised as tools to unblock the blocked. But in reality these items were merely designed to get you to buy other things, and keep on buying instead of writing; something invented by a devious writer, perhaps, who didn’t want the competition of your good work.

Then, immortalized as writer’s block has been by story, as well as no fewer than 33 film versions of blocked writers, the concept has become so accepted that some people actually take haven under the shelter of supposedly having no more to write.

Well, it’s nonsense. Because no friend in the world would let you get away with it if you were, in fact, blocked. I know. I have a sister, we are both writers, and neither one of us has ever let the other stay blocked for more than a few moments. She, too, believes that there is no such thing as writer’s block.

What do we do?

Are you ready?

It’s diabolical.

It’s ingenious.

It’s called research.

Writer’s block melts away when you recognize that you simply do not know what to say next. In memoir writing, this can be fixed by picking up the phone and doing a little research.

Me, I usually call my sister, and when I do, the call will go something like this.

“Margaret?”

“Yes.”

“What was the name of the boy who rode the bus with me every day to school?”

“You mean your imaginary friend, or the real children, Marion?”

Ooooh. Nice. That got me going.

Other methods of research include using reference books. Along with fact-checking, these can explain how things work, when they were invented, who said what, and more. Along with being stuck, playing with the truth (otherwise known as lying) also happens when writers do not know what to say. So do some research. Writing what you know does not mean you don’t check your facts. Accuracy counts. Memoir demands fact-checking since memory, by definition, is subjective.

Now, repeat after me: There is no such thing as writer’s block. Okay. Good. We are ready to move on.

Here’s your fix: Have reference books nearby at all times, including:

  • A good modern dictionary
  • Roget’s Thesaurus. We will not even discuss using the one on your computer, except to say that it’s forbidden.
  • Bartlett’s Quotations
  • A rhyming dictionary
  • The Bible
  • A book of days, referencing famous things that happened on various dates
  • The Complete Shakespeare
  • Several standard texts of language usage, such as The Elements of Style by Strunk and White, and The Elements of Grammar by Margaret Shertzer, and The New York Times Manual of Style and Usage
  • A word and phrase origins book
  • A dictionary of symbolism
  • One up-to-date, and one hopelessly out-of-date atlas (country names change)
  • Any other old damn thing you want. A full standard encyclopedia is nearby for me, as are horticultural encyclopedias; a complete set of field guides to bugs, birds, plants, and mammals; several books on how things work and how they were invented and the like; as well as my copy of The Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson.

If you’re working in a library, you’re all set. They have all of these. If you’re at home, buy them used at any reputable online used book dealer, like alibris, or ABEbooks. Without reference books, you will make things up or get stuck, and there is never any reason to get stuck.

So write on.

Want more help? Join me in live, online memoir classes

Start here, with The Memoir Project System Page, to understand the breadth of all the classes we teach.

Want to jump right in? Here’s a sampling of our classes.

Memoirama: Live, 90 minutes. Everything you need to write what you know.

Memoirama 2. Live, two hours. Limited to seven writers. What you need to know to structure a book.

How to Write Opinion Pieces: Op-eds, Radio Essays and Digital Commentary: Live, 90 minutes. Get your voice out into the world.

And keep in mind that I am now taking names for the next  Master Class, the prerequisites for which are Memoirama and Memoirama 2. Live, once a month. Limited to seven writers. Get a first draft of your memoir finished in six months.

 

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  1. How to Overcome Writer’s Block
  2. Writers’ Block Redux: Stick a Needle in It
  3. How to Overcome Writers’ Resistance

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  1. Donna Dolan says

    June 9, 2011 at 10:23 am

    I’d love to see a column about the 33 films on blocked writers. Barton Fink?

  2. Jelane Kennedy says

    June 9, 2011 at 1:54 pm

    Marion, thank you for the reminder. And your sense of humor.
    Jelane

  3. Diane Cameron says

    June 11, 2011 at 11:33 am

    Susan Cheever once told me that shopping at Barney’s counts as research–one can imagine what one’s characters might wear/buy/try on. But she also said seriously that shopping can be writing if your writer’s sensibility is turned on. Legit.

  4. Myrna Magliulo says

    June 29, 2011 at 3:13 pm

    I heard about blogging in 2004 when I was taking in a lecture about research at a university library. The word “blog” bothered me, I don’t know why, so I dismissed the concept and did not return to the subject until this moment. I just bought “The Memoir Project.” I want to write, love to write, feel empowered by writing, but not sure how to get busy doing it. Anyway, I’m looking for a place to learn and share.

    • marion says

      July 3, 2011 at 3:11 pm

      Hi, Myrna. And welcome to my new blog. I am delighted that you purchased The Memoir Project, and hope you find what will motivate you there in its pages. Here, on this site, are many ways to get you going, as well. And then there is my free newsletter, which I hope you’ll go look at. Please subscribe, if you like. It goes out regularly, its sole intention to get everyone to write what they know. And if that is not enough, there is The Memoir Project on Facebook to further nudge you along in altogether different ways. All you have to do there is “like” it and you’re all set. So write on. And do stay in touch.

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