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Memoir coach and author Marion Roach

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Writing Memoir: Class Notes. March 23, 2012

THIS WEEK’S CLASS was the first in a new six-week series. I particularly love these first nights, since it brings the challenge back to me to explain what memoir is, what it is not, and what is required to write it. Each time I do this, I do it differently, long ago having abandoned a script I once hid behind for this presentation. Want to know what I said?

I covered some of my favorite topics, including these:

  • What memoir is not
  • Using lists
  • Asking yourself: What is this about?
  • Being counterphobic
  • The vomit draft
  • Reporting your life

After that, we got to the work, reading eight pieces of memoir brought in by the students. I use their work to teach, and from those pieces and their issues we discussed topics as vast as:

  • Characterization
  • Being hospitable
  • NPR essays
  • Using the calendar to write on deadline

Each week, I run a post here called Class Notes. Be sure to check it out.

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  1. Shirley says

    March 23, 2012 at 10:01 am

    What a generous thing to do, Marion! Thank you. Your blog is accumulating value to the reader every day. BTW, you were mentioned in a comment on my blog recently:http://www.shirleyshowalter.com/2012/03/19/toni-morrison-turns-back-memoir-contract/

    • marion says

      March 25, 2012 at 8:44 am

      Thank you, Shirley. I am delighted to share what I know, and let others do the same. You blog continues to illuminate me. Such great material. Thanks for that.

  2. nancy nichols says

    April 1, 2012 at 6:34 pm

    Your voice is always inspirational, Marion. And thank you for sharing all the links that inspire you. Being torn between disciplines, the least stinky of my vomits become an interesting verbal collage. So appreciative that your generous blog is a constant presence! Shirley has it absolutely right. You accumulate value to your readers every day! xo

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